"It might be well for all of us to remember that, while differing widely in the various little bits we know, in our infinite ignorance we are all equal. "


Posts tagged with 'friendship'

Peer groups: Ravenstor autumn group 2 - warming up

13th November 2010

It's the second morning. I wrote yesterday about our arrival at this group. Didn't get to bed till later last night and slept in for longer. The conversations are beginning to "ignite". As we spend more time here, get into it, hear how deeply & openly others are prepared to …

Peer groups: Ravenstor autumn group 1 - arriving

12th November 2010

It's the first morning of this four day, peer-run Men's group. We've been meeting like this every autumn since 1993 - a collection of friends & friends of friends & friends of friends of friends! I've written extensively about these peer groups on this blog. For example, five posts on …

Meeting at relational depth: a model

28th October 2010

I went to a workshop on Saturday about "Relational depth". As is usually the case, chewing over the material afterwards, thinking about how it's relevant for myself & my work, following up some leads - these seem crucial activities to promote "digestion" rather than a quick learning meal that goes …

Meeting at relational depth: what gets in the way?

27th October 2010

This is the fifth in a series of six blog posts triggered by going to a workshop "Meeting at relational depth" taken by Mick Cooper in Glasgow. I've already written about two exercises we explored during the morning session - "Meeting at relational depth: what does it involve?" and "Meeting …

Meeting at relational depth: links to attachment

26th October 2010

Yesterday I wrote a post "Meeting at relational depth: what intrigued me most". I described how, in this one day workshop, I paired up with someone I'd never met before and acted as client in a 20 minute role-played counselling session. Every minute we independently estimated how deeply we felt …

Meeting at relational depth: what intrigued me most

25th October 2010

I've already written a couple of blog posts about the workshop I went to on Saturday - "Meeting at relational depth: outline of a 'research' workshop" and "Meeting at relational depth: what does it involve?". However it was the second exercise we were asked to try out that I found …

Meeting at relational depth: what does it involve?

24th October 2010

"A consultation is when the room disappears." David Reilly (physician) On Saturday I went to a course called "Meeting at relational depth: a research workshop". I have already written a first post outlining the day. After staying overnight in Glasgow with a friend who was also coming to the course, …

Meeting at relational depth: outline of a 'research' workshop

23rd October 2010

I'm booked in for a course today with Professor Mick Cooper of the University of Strathclyde entitled "Meeting at relational depth: a research workshop". The publicity blurb reads "This experiential workshop, which Mick Cooper has been running nationally and internationally since the publication of 'Working at relational depth in counselling …

"Be the change you want to see in the world"

17th October 2010

"No man is an island entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main." John Donne In a yesterday's blog post "Cooperative behaviour cascades in social networks", I wrote about how generous and selfish acts can spread through a social network. In today's …

Opening up group, sixth session

7th October 2010

Yesterday evening was the sixth session of the "Opening up" group. It had been a longer gap than usual - ten days since our full day meeting at the fifth session. As we often do, we began with a round of "checking in"; an opportunity for all of us to …